Tags: Abusive Relationships, assclowns, bad boys, blowing hot and cold, boundaries - personal electric fence, cheating, emotional unavailability, Fast Forwarding, Future Fakers, Future Faking, narcissists, The Cheater, The Outrageous Principle, The Reset ButtonAn assclown is someone that deliberately and consistently goes out of their way to treat you without love, care, trust and respect. They […]
Look, I don’t hate you. I don’t even not like you. I’m just done. Done with the hurt. Done with the waiting. Done with the wanting, the needing. No, I don’t hate you, I’m just done with you. – Unknown
Tags: assclowns, emotional unavailability, fairy tales, Fallback Girls, narcissists, Needy, The No Contact RuleFollowing on from my previous post on ‘I love you but I’m not in love with you’ and other sayings translated as well as ‘what does it mean when a man says he can’t give you what you need?’, here are even […]
Tags: acceptance, assclowns, boundaries - personal electric fence, emotional unavailability, failure, he's just not that into you, unconditional loveThere are two key things that everyone desires and fears in life; acceptance and rejection, and where you don’t get one, you get the other. One of the most difficult things for someone who has been involved […]
Tags: assclowns, betting on potential, boundaries - personal electric fence, Code amber & Red behaviour & Issues, common interests in relationships, Compatibility, core values, emotional unavailability, fairy tales, lovenomics, Reasoning habits, red flagsThere are some key things that I believe about relationships which can be used to help you look at things and yourself differently. […]
Tags: blowing hot and cold, commitment resistance, emotional unavailability, Facebook and Breakups, Fallback Girls, Future Fakers, Future Faking, status quo of relationships, The No Contact Rule Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl is now available in print – yay – so I thought it was high time I shared an excerpt from this completely rewritten […]
Tags: assclowns, boundaries - personal electric fence, Commitment, emotional unavailability, lazy communication, Obsessive entitlementThere are many questions that burn through our mind when a relationship ends. It may be because he ended it or because you cut contact with him, but many of us get caught up in the futile game of wondering: Does he […]
Tags: Abusive Relationships, assclowns, bad boys, boundaries - personal electric fence, cheating, emotional unavailability, rejection, Rejection retraction, The Cheater The moment that the decision is made for a relationship to end and the words are final, we feel an immense sense of loss, of insecurity, indignant hurt, and as the dust settles and the days […]
Tags: Abusive Relationships, assclowns, bad boys, blowing hot and cold, boundaries - personal electric fence, cheating, emotional unavailability, Fast Forwarding, Future Fakers, Future Faking, narcissists, The Cheater, The Outrageous Principle, The Reset ButtonAn assclown is someone that deliberately and consistently goes out of their way to treat you without love, care, trust and respect. They […]
Tags: being nice, hiding anger and control, nice, obsessing about my relationship or breakup, people pleasing, rejection, Rejection sensitivity, resentment, The Good Girl and The Good GuyOne of the biggest barriers to making the decision to break up, staying broken up, or breaking up with your self-esteem in tow, is people pleasing in an attempt to influence […]
Tags: blowing hot and cold, Code amber & Red behaviour & Issues, passive aggression, people pleasing, The Disappointment Cycle Sometimes you can find yourself trapped in this cycle of doing the same thing over and over again on the basis that, in spite of evidence to the contrary, you still believe there’s the possibility of […]
Tags: Communication, decision making, I'm not good enough belief, Obsessive entitlement, shady behaviour, shady people, shady relationships, The No Contact RuleA few days ago, I wrote about how we need to Stop Explaining. Stop Talking. Boundaries are upheld with action. Today, I wanted to focus on talking overload’s friend: thinking used as a way of […]
