Talking about responsibility can easily be a boring lecture for kids. We made it fun and interactive by talking about "whose job is it" for the important responsibilities in their lives!
If you don't have this book as part of your counseling collection, I highly recommend it. My students really enjoy making their own remote and it is such a helpful tool to use during problem solving and when working on impulse control. It can be adapted for many situations and is a great visual tool. Here is what the book looks like: This is the remote that I make with my students. I have what each button means written underneath each of the buttons. Mine is made out of cardstock but I know there are other versions on pinterest and other blogs made from foam and other materials. Enjoy!!
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Need a resource to engage your counseling program's youngest learners? This packet of Primary Social-Emotional Centers on Careers will meet your needs! This packet includes 6 interactive, independent centers on Community Helpers and Careers for Pre-K, Kindergarten, and 1st Graders. An “I Can” statement as well as instructions for the educator on prep and implementation are included with each center. Students will be able to name, label, identify, describe, and discuss careers and community helpers through: 1) Roll-a-Vehicle - roll the dice and color in or write in a vehicle a community helper uses 2) Transportation Puzzles - match careers to their modes of transportation 3) Career Sorts - sort careers by ones that work together 4) Play Dough Tools - make your a tool someone in that career might use 5) Write the Room - hunt the room for careers (and work on beginning sounds too) 6) My Careers Book - create a book of careers and practice spelling these words Check out the Preview for an picture of each Center in action! CLICK HERE for more Career Exploration Resources!
Kelso is back in ACTION at Lee Elementary! Kelso & His Friend Lily sitting atop my bookshelf Students have been begging for Kelso to come visit their classroom with me and it is finally time! Kelso is our counseling mascot at Lee, helping students solve their problems with his simple wheel of choices: Kelso's Choices is a conflict-management curriculum that teaches children that they can be problem solvers themselves. Students learn to determine small problems they can handle on independently and large problems that require an adult's help. After reintroducing him to our students and having them explain how it works (see previous post here), we were ready to create our own Kelso to help us out. I was inspired by two different bloggers, Mrs. H & The Creative Counselor, and adapted their ideas to "Kelso-ize" them. In first grade, students made their Kelso's with his mouth containing the different choices they can try to resolve conflict: In second grade, students made a problem solving lily pad for Kelso and his choices. The bottom plate had the 9 choices glued onto it and the top plate had a slice cut out for them to spin it around until they found one they wanted to try:
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In first grade we have begun our month on thinking about our futures. Where do we want to go to college? What do we want to be when we grow up? Our first lesson focused on the career options that are out there. To get their brains thinking, we read Being Wendy written by Fran Drescher. This story follows a young girl named Wendy on her journey of thinking outside of the box. She lives in Boxville, where everyone must pick a box that shows their career choice. Even the dogs where boxes! Wendy cannot figure out just one career that she would like to have because she has many interests. Throughout the story we talk about the following points (from The Corner on Character blog): 1. Do you think everyone grows up to get the job they wanted when they were a kid? Share responses from the teachers at your school at this time to demonstrate that dreams change as we grow. 2. If you set a goal to have a specific career someday and you grow up to be something different, does that mean you failed at your goal? 3. Wendy said that she felt different from everyone else, but was afraid to tell someone. Why do you think she was afraid? 4. Is it a bad thing to be different from others? How do you treat people who are different from you? 5. The author stated, “Wendy tried to take her dad’s advice, but the more she thought about it, the more she hated thinking inside the box.” Have you ever heard the expression, “thinking inside/outside the box”? What does it mean? How does it apply here? 6. What do you think the town of “Freedomland” is like? After the story we start brainstorming what we might want to be when we grow up. Then we narrowed down what career we would want to have if we lived in Boxville, with one exception: it can be more than one idea! Students created their Boxville character and wrote down many career options they are interested in pursuing. You can download the body template from The Corner on Character here. Here are some of the Boxville residents they created:
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I promised this post FOREVER ago and just haven’t done it for many reasons. Some of which aren’t good ones, some of which are unimportant right now. But, REGARDLESS, it is here! I think at this point, we know I love Erin Condren Planners. I received my Teacher Planner back in the spring for this upcoming …
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It's that restless time of the year where teachers are exhausted and students are pushing the boundaries. I've noticed our first graders needing lots of reminders to sit on the carpet and keep their bodies to themselves...so it's a good time to read Julia Cook's Personal Space Camp! This is an amazingly entertaining book that keeps the students engaged and laughing throughout the pages. We meet Louis, a student that is obsessed with outer space but has no concept of personal space. We watch him "lunar land" on someone's leg, smash into satellites (other students), and demonstrate an eclipse (getting in between two people talking) before he is invited to go to Personal Space Camp. Using bubbles (which I also blow onto the students to observe their properties), hula hoops, a PSLUR, and body cut-out, he learns about personal space and realizes it is very different than outer space. After the story, students sorted different scenarios into 2 personal space categories: good choices vs bad choices. Here is a link to the organizer and here is a link to the activity packet I used for them to sort from Lisa Parnello. And this just cracks me up...
Continuing on with our lessons about RESPECT, my class moved on to Empathy. For those of you following along, this lesson went with the "E" in Digital Divide and Conquer's RESPECT posters. I began by showing the students this Sesame Street video defining Empathy. Let's face it, empathy is a hard word to understand and Sesame Street has a knack for breaking hard concepts down for kids. I will admit, when I first projected this up, there were several groans from my fifth graders. But by the end of the video, they were laughing and fully into it. Plus, they understood Empathy :) Once we had a good working definition of what it means to be empathetic, I walked them through the five steps towards showing empathy in any given situation. I got these steps from this lesson here, and I thought they were just perfect for breaking down the process we go through when putting ourselves in another person's shoes. I then broke the students into groups of 4. Each group was given a scenario in which they could possibly show empathy to the person being effected by the circumstances. I also gave each student a different colored sticky note. I had them cut each sticky in half, so they would have a total of 5 stickies (actually 6, but they used that 6th one for a book mark or something.) On each of the five stickies, I asked the students to write how they would respond to the scenario according to the five steps. For example, if the scenario was "A student, who studied hard for her test, failed." the kids would write how they would watch that student's body language and listen to her words in step one, or show the student who failed that they care in step five. Once all of that was done, each student placed their sticky on the "step" on the recording sheet I gave them. Then, taking the idea from these collaborative posters from Runde's Room, the kids read each idea and combined them into one "best" way to respond empathetically to each step in the scenario. Finally, each group presented their scenarios and the steps towards empathy that the kids decided upon. All in all, this was a great way to get the kids thinking about putting themselves in each others' shoes. They now have a new word in their vocabulary and ways to help them show empathy. Would you like the two printables I gave the students? You can get them by clicking here. If you are following this series, you can find the rest of the lessons below: R - Heart Mending E - Empathy (this post here :)) S - THINKing before you Speak Follow me on Snapchat for even more teaching ideas!
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I stumbled upon a great find at the bookstore, Being Wendy, written by Fran Drescher. In this delightful picture book, the main character lives in a town called Boxville. Everyone in Boxville follows the rule of wearing a box with the name of their career on the front of it. Police Officer Miranda Wrights has "police officer" written on her box. Her teacher Mrs. Reedenwright has "teacher" written on her box. But Wendy doesn't want to be labeled as just one thing, she wants to think outside the box and be many things... This was a great book to read aloud during our college & career month in May. Many students think they need to know now what they want to be when they grow up, and my goal was to dispel this, among other, myths. You do not need to know who you want to be in the future because the possibilities are endless! You can change your mind, explore new careers, and find what interests you. It is important to have a plan of action once you decide on a career and everyone chooses their own path. We then played "Career Charades!" Students drew a career card from the stack I made and had to silently act out the career they chose. Examples of Careers & Actions: Dentist: pretend to look at teeth Astronomer: pretend to look through a telescope Doctor: pretend to check a heartbeat Photographer: pretend to take a picture Painter: pretend to paint a wall Truck Driver: pretend to drive and honk your horn Musician: pretend to play a guitar Builder: pretend to hammer a nail Librarian: pretend to read books aloud Mover: pretend to lift a heavy box Teacher: pretend to teach the class Singer: pretend to sing into a microphone Hairdresser: pretend to do someone's hair Dancer: pretend to dance around the room