Darling, I don't know why I go to extremes Too high or too low there ain't no in-betweens — Billy Joel There's a common fallacy known as a false dilemma or false dichotomy. It's where you're artificially presented with a black-and-white, either-or choice: you're forced to choose between all of one or all of the other. 'You're either with us or against us!' It's a fallacy because, most of the time, you're not actually constrained