Here are body safety rules to review with children in order to encourage them to tell someone if sexual abuse occurs. 1. You are the boss of your own body! You can say no to any touch, including unwanted hugs or kisses. 2. Private parts are private. People should not see or touch parts of your body that a bathing suit or underwear covers. 3. Secrets. It is important to not keep unsafe secrets like unsafe touch. 4. Safety Network. Think of 5 safe adults who you could tell.