If you've seen some of my previous birthday party posts, then you know my recent philosophy on birthdays. I like for my kids' parties to be creative, fun, but not over-the-top. I want to be able to enjoy the party and celebrate the life of my loved one! So in recent years, I have toned it down and promised to give my kiddos' the gift of a relaxed and happy mommy as well as a fun party. The elements of any birthday party that matter most to my kids are the games, the food, and the goody bags. I try to focus on these elements and keep the rest simple.