Everyone has experienced trauma. One person’s bad day is another person’s living nightmare for years. We all experience things that are difficult, and divorce
Everyone has experienced trauma. One person’s bad day is another person’s living nightmare for years. We all experience things that are difficult, and divorce
Dear Chump Lady, My husband of 10 years suddenly left me 6 months ago, with ZERO warning, and is ever-so-cliché-ly dating his former office manager, 14 years his junior. I honestly had no idea he was so unhappy in our marriage that he would have an affair, let alone leave me, our 6 year old...
Sharing is caring 1.3K Being discarded by a narcissist is one of the most painful experiences victims endure…well, after the heart-wrenching devalue phase. It’s like icing on an insidious, poisonous cake for which only narcissists hold the recipe. The Discard After being discarded, you believe it’s your fault. You obsess over whether you could have done things […]
The other day I happened to stumble upon another article written with the list of negative effects or consequences of divorce, especially when there are children involved. It was basically a list of reasons why you should never get a divorce. As I write and share my story, about how God didn’t save my marriage from divorce, I often hear what I should have done differently or the consequences I now must endure. As people who are going through or who have gone through a divorce, we already know these consequences. We’re experiencing them first hand. We know the trauma our family faces, we feel the betrayal, we grieve the losses, and we see the pain our children are enduring after divorce. This is not the path that we would have wanted to be on but so many of us were not given any other choice – we were abandoned and/or abuse or adultery was committed. The only way to heal and move on to a thriving life after divorce is to accept this path, even if it’s really unwanted. We remain stuck in these negative effects when we refuse to acknowledge the truth and allow this human rejection to define our worth. Instead of dwelling on what could have and should have been, we need to learn to see the light at the end of the dark tunnel and overcome. Thriving after divorce means creating a new life, with our Creator as our Husband. Here are 5 positive things to do after divorce. Photo Credit: Pixabay
While much of our country talks of sweet valentine stories and we remember different feelings from good and bad Valentine’s Days.
While much of our country talks of sweet valentine stories and we remember different feelings from good and bad Valentine’s Days.
While much of our country talks of sweet valentine stories and we remember different feelings from good and bad Valentine’s Days.
Parents always wonder about the children when they get divorced. Will they be okay? Will they understand? What will they remember? Here's what I wish my divorced mom would have known.
What is a Divorce Coach and why would I need to hire one? This is the extensive post that explains it all. You can be prepared and conquer your divorce with the encouragement and empowerment of a coach to walk with you on this journey.
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