I still don’t understand how people that have known me for my entire life, hear one thing from one person, and decide that everything I have ever been and proved to be was not realy? I just cant understand. But maybe thsts how my dad feels about me, like he thought I was selfless but zi turned out to be selfish because I didnt respect him. I just dont understand how this all happened so quickly. I believe that there may be a direct correlation between when I began talking to my mom, and when he really started to leave me alone. But snyways, how can people form opinions about someone purely based on something they heard? I guess if you establish your name as a trusted source, it would be easy to believe.