Parenting is anything but easy, and (much to many parents' dismay) there's no one-size-fits all manual for how to do it right. Instead, we all have to figure things out as we go along. So we do the best we can — and we all screw up at one point or another. That's totally normal. The problem? When our screw-ups turn into the status quo. It's surprisingly easy to fall into bad habits and patterns without even realizing our child-rearing style has taken a turn for the toxic. Of course we'd never intentionally hurt our kids, but many of us...