Haley and Aaron spent a lot of energy working on their ceremony and vows with their close friend and celebrant, Ari. "Over the course of several months, we met individually and together with Ari, reflecting on our relationship, values, and reasons for getting married and having a wedding. It was important to us that our vows be mutual and personal. On one long walk in the woods, we came up with eight shared commitments, which were the foundation for our individual vows."