If you've opened your phone or made your way online, you've probably come across some manifestation guru telling you that if you believe hard enough and maintain positive pure energy, you'll receive the desires of your heart. As if everything that you could ever want will just fall into your lap if you are just positive and believe enough. Yeah, that's not how it works. Don't believe the hype. While it does pay to have a positive mindset, the reality of the situation is that real shit happens in