It's not always easy to identify relational aggression. Casual attitudes about teasing friends, reluctance to report occurrences and the sophisticated methods some kids use can make identifying relational aggression difficult. Welcome to my series on girl drama relational aggression. In this post, we will take a look at the definition of relational aggression and how to tell when it is happening. As I stated, in my first post about relational aggression, relational aggression is a type of bullying that causes harm to a relationship. The types of relationships can vary greatly; relational aggression can occur between best friends or between