Dr. Stephen E. Lamb (Marriage, Family Therapist, author, and researcher) gave an amazing lecture on marriage. He referenced these lists (based off research from Dr. Harley's book "His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage) of the top 5 marital needs of Men and Women, which I thought were very interesting. Figure out what you think both of your top 5 needs are - I bet you would have an interesting conversation! Women’s Expectations/Needs in Marriage: Affection Conversation Trust & fidelity Financial security Family commitment Men’s Expectations/Needs in Marriage: Sexual Fulfillment Recreational companionship Attractive wife Domestic support Praise and admiration (appreciation)