What if we set God’s design as our deepest goal and desire for our marriages? What if we chose to believe that delight is possible? What if we prayed for God to help us find the intimacy and oneness He desires for us?Are you ready to pursue delight in sex and to delight in the intimacy in your marriage?
About this episode Today we’re talking about resources for your marriage, and specifically about resources to help you enjoy great sex in your marriage. Listen to the episode From the Bible What does God have to say about sex? A lot! The Bible says a great deal about marriage and intimacy. Start with the Song […]
There are many opinions on premarital sex but God's Word is clear. Read the Christian view on premarital sex in our series on Christian sex and intimacy.
Have you ever heard the phrase, “Someone’s gotta go first,” in regards to making a change to improve an unhappy marriage? Well, I didn’t go first. Oh, I may have found the resources. However, my husband took the first steps. He showed me what true change looks like. He quickly grasped how to apply […]
Are you struggling in a sexless marriage where you are no longer intimate with your husband? Has physical intimacy completely died and you are not having sex with your spouse? If you need love advice and encouragement on how to revive intimacy and have more sex in your Christian marriage, this is th
Three Christian marriage tips to help you rekindle the romance in your relationship and prepare for intimacy as a busy, Christian woman.
But God's design for sex is based on real, God-defined love. It is good to desire that kind of love. But when our desire for love is reduced to a desire for physical closeness alone, we have missed the point entirely. Sexual sensations are a product of sex - but they aren't the purpose.
Do you feel like you have a boring sex life? It's not uncommon to get stuck in our routines and forget that sex is a crucial part to any happy and healthy relationship. These simple tips and tricks will take you from boring to amazing sex!
Dear Shaunti, You’re the researcher, so please tell me the real answer: How often do guys need to have sex? I just don’t think about sex much; I guess it isn’t a need for me. But my husband says he thinks about it all the time, and he gets crabby that I’m often too tired. Even though I can go weeks or months and not miss it, since he can’t, I try to do the right thing. But oddly, even though he says he’s “deprived”, when I tell him “okay” that just makes him mad. He says he wants me to want it like he does. I feel like I can’t win. But if I knew how often a man needs sex I could plan on that, and hopefully that would help.
The infertile marriage bed - don't let infertility negatively affect your sex life and your marriage.
Do you feel like you have a sexless marriage? You are not alone and there is hope. In Episode 107, Daniel and Christina interview Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley about what triggers sexual inactivity in a marriage, what to do if there is a mismatch in the desire for sex, and some practical steps you
Many women become involved or even obsessed with the wrong partners – ones who are emotionally unavailable, unfaithful, addicted to substances – or who
Being a rape victim does not have to destroy sex in a christian marriage. There are 3 steps I've taken to Embrace the joy of Sex dispte the pain and fear.
Talking about Sexual Intimacy in marriage is vital to the relationship but often hard to do. This resource and questions will make having the sex chat easier.
Learn what you can do to make foreplay a time when you are both heigtening the sexual arousal and the desire for sexual activity.
Today we are grabbing into the virtual mail bag to answer your questions. Listen and see what the ladies have to say about porn, lack of sex drive, and spicing things up. Click into the link and you'll find a coupon code at the end of the show notes for Marriage Spice.....an intimacy store.
Can you learn to initiate sex, even if your sexual desire isn't there?
This article by nationally-recognized sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma offers hope, encouragement, and direction to wives who have a stronger sexual drive.
I know when it's been too long. I can feel it. I think every aspect of our life together can feel it when my husband and I have gone too long without making love. What about your marriage? What does it do to you as an individual and to you both as a couple when you go too long without having sex? I will speak from my own experience, but I imagine some of these ring true for you, too. 5 Signs I've Gone Too Long Without Sex 1. I lose patience quicker when I've gone too long without sex.
Are you struggling in a sexless marriage where you are no longer intimate with your husband? Has physical intimacy completely died and you are not having sex with your spouse? If you need love advice and encouragement on how to revive intimacy and have more sex in your Christian marriage, this is th
Before you get down to business, it's important to tease your woman to turn her on. Here are 6 female erogenous zones to pay more attention to.
Hint: It has nothing to do with a toned bod.
"Someday" is a popular word in marriage. We say things like, "Someday, let's go to Europe. Someday, let's do a marriage retreat together. Someday, let's
This article by nationally-recognized sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma offers hope, encouragement, and direction to wives who have a stronger sexual drive.
Are you looking for some advice in the realm of Christian sex? This post shares practical Christian sex advice for married couples that will bless you!
Nurturing your sexual desire throughout the day can improve your body's sexual response.
Plus, exactly what you can do to reignite the spark.
How can I Initiate sex with my husband? This is the question a lot of women have asked and are seeking answers. To some, men are supposed to be.......
It turns out every part of the narrative we’re taught about desire is not merely wrong, but wrongheaded
Dear Shaunti, You’re the researcher, so please tell me the real answer: How often do guys need to have sex? I just don’t think about sex much; I guess it isn’t a need for me. But my husband says he thinks about it all the time, and he gets crabby that I’m often too tired. Even though I can go weeks or months and not miss it, since he can’t, I try to do the right thing. But oddly, even though he says he’s “deprived”, when I tell him “okay” that just makes him mad. He says he wants me to want it like he does. I feel like I can’t win. But if I knew how often a man needs sex I could plan on that, and hopefully that would help.
We know why we should avoid the sin of lust and objectification. Here is a list of why physical intimacy should be celebrated.
Let's talk about sex.
It's embarrassing to think about your kids overhearing you have sex. But it isn't the end of the world. In this post, I share what my young adult son had to say about this.
Have you ever wondered what's okay in the bedroom, in terms of Christian sex? Here is a Christian sex guide to answer your questions in a very candid way!
Sex experts share how to make yourself horny during sex without forcing anything.
Are you struggling in a sexless marriage where you are no longer intimate with your husband? Has physical intimacy completely died and you are not having sex with your spouse? If you need love advice and encouragement on how to revive intimacy and have more sex in your Christian marriage, this is th
Intimacy is tough, and it's not uncommon to find yourself in a situation where you're not attracted to your husband anymore. But I'm here to help you.
Today, Bonny, Chris, and Gaye tackle a few listener questions. What if my husband says my feelings aren't valid? How can I experience multiple orgasms? What do I do about my husband's ED?