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When your child does something that you see as wrong, what is your reaction to it? Do you get angry, annoyed or exasperated and do you start to yell, question, blame, shame, ridicule or find faults with your child? The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, was known to be kind and gentle, especially with children. He never did any of this. He was patient with children and the way he responded to them and corrected their behaviour is the example for us to follow. These are the things to keep in mind when you need to correct your child's behaviour: 1. Remain Calm For many of us, when we see an incorrect behaviour, our automatic reaction is to become angry. We see a behaviour that's not correct and instantly a record starts to play in our head of "What is he doing? I've told him/her before not to do that! Why is he doing that? Who does he think he is? How can he do this to me? Where does he get off doing what he does? When will he ever learn?" These are questions that make us angrier by the second. To stop this escalation, we need to seek refuge with Allah from shaytan and take deep breathes to calm us before we act. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, never acted out of anger or rashness. Not to children and not even to adults. Abu Hurairah said: "A Bedouin entered the mosque when the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was sitting there, and (the man) said: ‘O Allah, forgive me and Muhammad, and do not forgive anyone else with us.’ The Messenger of Allah smiled and said: ‘You have placed restrictions on something that is vast.’ Then the Bedouin turned away, went to a corner of the mosque, spread his legs and began to urinate. After he had a better understanding, the Bedouin said: ‘He (peace and blessings be upon him) got up and came to me, and may my father and mother be ransomed for him, he did not rebuke me nor revile me. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "This mosque is not for urinating in. Rather it is built for the remembrance of Allah and prayer.’" Then he (peace and blessings be upon him) called for a large vessel of water and poured it over the place where I had urinated." (Sunan Idn Majah) Think back to a time when you were toilet raining your child and he accidentally urinated on your floor. What was your reaction? Did you get upset? The chances are that most of us would have been upset at the mess and having to clean up. I've seen parents who would get angry and start to blame and shame their child. The key is to control your emotions and remain calm. 2. Use a quiet speaking voice The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, never raised his voice. There are no hadeeth that describes the Prophet as yelling or shouting. A description of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, says the opposite: Abu Abdullah Al-Khadali reported: I asked Aisha about the character of the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him. Aisha said, “The Prophet was not indecent, he was not obscene, he would not shout in the markets, and he would not respond to an evil deed with an evil deed, but rather he would pardon and overlook.” (Tirmidhi) Most of us when we're angry or upset, our voices are raised to a high pitch and we start to scream and shout. We need to remember the advise of Luqman to lower our voices: And be moderate in your pace and lower your voice; indeed, the most disagreeable of sounds is the voice of donkeys. (Quran, Luqman 31:19) 3. Ignore the wrong behaviour Ignore it does not mean we don't deal with it. It means that we don't comment on it or refer to it at all. Most of us will make a point of highlighting the behaviour. We either criticise it or ridicule it and we blame or reprimand the person for doing it. Anas ibn Malik reported: I served the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, for ten years. By Allah, he never even said to me, “Uff!” He never said harshly for anything, “Why did you do that?” or, “Why did you not do that?” (Bukhari and Muslim) Like the hadith above in which the man urinated in the mosque, the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, didn't rebuke nor did he revile when someone did something wrong. 4. Instruct on the correct behaviour in a few concise sentences The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, never belaboured the point and never lectured on it. He gave instructions in as few short words as possible. Umar ibn Abu Salamah reported: I was under the care of the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, and my hand used to roam about the dish. The Prophet said to me, “O young man, mention the name of Allah, eat with your right hand, and eat what it is front of you.” (Bukhari and Muslim) In this hadeeth, you can see that the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him didn't rebuke the child for doing the wrong thing but he instead told the child the correct manner in which to eat in three short instructions: 1. Mention the name of Allah, 2. Eat with your right hand, and 3. Eat what is in front of you. This is easy for a child to remember. He, peace and blessings be upon him, didn't elaborate on it by going into a lecture. It was short and to the point. ***** If you like this article then please subscribe to my mailing list to keep up to date with future posts and more parenting tips and downloads that only my subscribers have access to. Fill in the form below: Subscribe to our mailing list * indicates required Email Address * First Name Last Name
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